{"id":31112,"date":"2013-07-25T14:33:06","date_gmt":"2013-07-25T18:33:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jetwit.com\/wordpress\/?p=31112"},"modified":"2013-07-25T14:33:06","modified_gmt":"2013-07-25T18:33:06","slug":"kitchers-cafe-001-what-we-wish-we-had-known-but-now-they-can-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jetwit.com\/wordpress\/2013\/07\/25\/kitchers-cafe-001-what-we-wish-we-had-known-but-now-they-can-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Kitcher\u2019s Caf\u00e9 #001: What we wish we had known \u2013 but now they can!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kitcher\u2019s Caf\u00e9, a new series by Lana Kitcher<\/a>\u00a0(<\/em><\/strong>Yamanashi-ken<\/em><\/strong><\/a>, 2010-12)\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/strong>is an assortment of articles, topics and commentary written for the JET Alumni community.<\/em>\u00a0Lana currently serves as the Business Development Associate at Bridges to Japan<\/a>, a New York-based cross-cultural consulting firm founded by JET alum Jennifer Jakubowski (Hokkaido<\/a>, 1995-97)<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

As I sat in my empty Yamanashi apartment, one year ago this month, a flood of feelings rushed over me. I had come full-circle, able to cram everything into two suitcases again with anxious yet excited feelings of leaving home for something unfamiliar. I had a bundle of memorabilia set aside to take with me, and pictures of the last days that I had with my students, coworkers and friends. I knew it was going to be hard to say goodbye and turn the page to the next exciting chapter of my life, but I didn’t think that it was going to feel so daunting. This was the first time in my life that the next steps were utterly unplanned and unpredictable. After high school I knew I was going to college, during college I knew I wanted to work for the JET Program… but now that the JET Program was over, the next year was a completely blank slate. I was going to have to return to my hometown temporarily to figure it out, and that idea to me was terrifying.<\/p>\n

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Many of the JETs that are in Japan right now are clearing out their desks, packing up their apartments, attending farewell parties, and being brought to tears by the students and coworkers that shared many moments with them this past year (or five). Where once was an unfamiliar, foreign and strange place, has become normal life. Do they realize that many of them are about to leave Japan, bound for an even stranger land – the one that they once called home?<\/p>\n

As many of us have experienced, returning to your home country after any amount of time living abroad is more challenging than it may seem at first. They try to warn us about reverse culture shock, but we convince ourselves that \u201cI will be different,\u201d and \u201cIt won\u2019t happen to me, I already know what to expect.\u201d Some people really don\u2019t<\/em> experience any strange or frustrating feelings when returning home, but for individuals like myself, the first year back may be a\u00a0challenging and rocky road.<\/p>\n

As JET alumni, what do you wish someone had told you during your final days in Japan? What are some of the words of wisdom that you wish you had known before coming back? How can we help these transitioning JET participants, soon to join the alumni community? My advice to them would be this:<\/p>\n

Try not to have unrealistically high expectations of how awesome going home will be, and don’t give up on yourself when things get tough. There may be challenges like living with family members, trying to find a job, readjusting to the foods and customs of your culture, but take them in doses and remember to step back and breathe when things might start to feel frustrating.<\/p>\n

Also, the job market may still be a little more complicated than you are expecting. For many, the traditional ways of finding a job are now becoming the least successful. If you’ve spent weeks looking for jobs online and haven’t had any luck, start branching out. Talk to everyone you know and tell them your situation. Use networking groups, meetups, LinkedIn, and informational interviews. Meeting people in person and talking to those already in your networks is likely going to be your key into your next position. Also consider picking up a copy of\u00a0What Color Is Your Parachute<\/span> by Richard Nelson Bolles at your local library. When I was actively seeking help and networking in my community, this was the number one resource that my friends recommended. It gave me some practical statistical information to help me understand my odds of getting a job by applying online, and helped me think of new ways to approach the job market.
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What kind of advice do you wish you had heard as you were finishing up the JET Program? Leave your comments in the space below, and give the new returnees a leg up as their tenure as an active JET Program participant comes to a close.<\/p>\n

You can find out more about Reverse Culture Shock by reading\u00a0Surviving in Japan: 10 Ways To Prepare For Reverse Culture Shock And Leaving Japan<\/a>\u00a0by Ashley Thompson (Shizuoka-ken, 2008-10), Community Manager for Nihongo Master and editor of Surviving in Japan.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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